she asked, you said yes…

The Complete Maid of Honor Manual & Workbook

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Less than one bridesmaid dress - and it makes the whole role feel easy.

Everything you need to nail the maid of honor role, in one calm, beautiful workbook: the timeline, the bridal shower, the bachelorette, the toast, and the day-of survival kit. Now with a built-in AI co-planner that writes the group-chat message, the itinerary, and even your toast draft for you.

  • 35 printable pages across the 4 parts of the MOH role
  • AI co-planner prompts - paste into any free AI tool and let it draft
  • Complete bridal shower & bachelorette planning guides
  • "Interview the bride" expectations worksheet (zero drama)
  • Bridesmaid & dress tracker, toast formula, day-of emergency kit
  • Instant digital download · yours forever · print or use on your tablet
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will you be my maid of honor?!

You said yes in a heartbeat. Then it hit you.

Being the MOH is one of the biggest honors there is - and one of the biggest jobs. Suddenly there's a shower, a bachelorette, a toast, and a whole bridal party looking at you.

"What am I even supposed to do?"

Nobody hands you a job description. You're guessing at what the bride actually expects from you.

"I have to plan a bridal shower?!"

When, where, who pays, what games - it's a whole event, and it's somehow on you.

"AND an epic bachelorette?"

Dates, budget, travel, a dozen opinions in the group chat. It's a lot to wrangle.

"I have to give a TOAST?"

In front of everyone. The part that keeps you up at night - and you've never written one.

"How do I herd the bridesmaids?"

Contact info, dress orders, payments. Someone's always behind, and the bride can't deal with it.

"What if I let her down?"

You've seen a not-so-great MOH. You want to be the hero of her wedding, not the stress.

hi, I'm so glad you're here

I'm Kyle - a two-time MOH and a wedding planner.

The maid of honor role is a big one. HUGE. But done right, it becomes one of the best experiences of your life - and your best friend's. I've stood up there twice myself, and I planned weddings for a living, so I've seen exactly what makes a MOH great… and what happens when there's no plan.

So I built one. This manual is the whole role, laid out step by step - the expectations talk, the shower, the bachelorette, the toast, the day-of survival kit - so you always know what to do, when, and how.

This year I added something brand new: an AI co-planner built right into the pages. Anywhere there's busywork - the group-chat kickoff, the bachelorette itinerary, even the first draft of your toast - a copy-and-paste prompt hands it to a free tool like ChatGPT or Claude. You stay the one who knows the bride. The robot does the typing.

xo, Kyle
A maid of honor manual with a built-in AI co-planner

Meet the part that does the busywork.

Copy-and-paste prompts are woven through the manual. Open a free AI tool, paste the prompt, fill in your details, and let it draft. You read it over, make it sound like you, and get hours of your life back.

Get startedTurns your basics into a month-by-month MOH plan
Group-chat kickoffWrites the first bridesmaid message for you
Dress decoderExplains silhouettes & necklines before fittings
Bachelorette itineraryA full hour-by-hour weekend plan
Shower plannerTheme, games, menu, and timeline ideas
Write my toastA heartfelt first draft in your voice
Build the kit listYour day-of emergency kit, sorted
+ moreSprinkled through every part of the role
Try it now · the write-my-toast prompt

"Help me write a maid-of-honor toast for [bride]. We've been friends since [when]. A story that sums her up: [story]. Keep it ~2 minutes, warm with one good laugh, and end on the couple. Ask me 3 questions first."

A closer look

Beautiful pages you'll actually want to use.

35 pages of calm, clear worksheets - read it once to see the whole role, then fill it in at your own pace.

Your AI co-plannerPrompts that write the busywork
Bridal shower, sortedTheme, games, menu & timeline
Bachelorette itineraryA proven weekend, ready to borrow
Write the toastA heartfelt draft in your voice
Everything you get35 pages, the whole role
Printable & tablet-readyUse it however you plan
Everything, in order, in one place

The four parts of the MOH role.

1
The MOH Commitment

Your timeline, the month-by-month checklists, the expectations talk, and the complete bridal shower guide.

2
The Bachelorette

Vision and vibe, budget math, destination & travel tracking, the itinerary builder, food and decor.

3
The Toast

A simple formula, a fill-in worksheet, and an AI prompt that writes your first draft for you.

4
Wedding Day

The day-before and rehearsal, the wedding morning, and the emergency kit that makes you the hero.

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Plus: AI Co-Planner Prompts

Woven through every part to do the busywork - group chat, itinerary, toast, and kit.

♡
A "Will you be my MOH?" page

A sweet note from the bride to start it all, plus the bridesmaid & dress tracker.

Two kinds of maid of honor

Be the hero, not the stress.

Winging it

  • Guessing what the bride expects
  • Scrambling on the shower & bach
  • Panicking about the toast
  • Bridesmaids and dresses all over the place

With the Manual

  • A clear plan for every duty
  • Done-for-you shower & bach guides
  • A toast that gets compliments
  • Everyone organized - bride stress-free
take on the role like a pro

The Complete Maid of Honor Manual & Workbook

$29
Instant digital download · 35 printable pages · print or use on your tablet
Month-by-month MOH checklists
"Interview the bride" expectations sheet
Complete bridal shower guide
Complete bachelorette guide
Bridesmaid & dress tracker
The toast formula & worksheet
Day-of timeline & emergency kit
AI co-planner prompts
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Planning the wedding too? Pair it with the Ultimate Wedding Planning Workbook.

Good questions

Before you say "I do" to the role.

Is this a digital download or a physical book?

It's an instant digital PDF - 35 pages you can download the moment you check out and print as many times as you like, or fill in right on your tablet. (Hardcover and paperback versions are also on Amazon.)

Do I need to be "good with AI" to use the prompts?

Not at all. Each prompt is written for you - copy it, paste it into a free tool like ChatGPT or Claude, fill in the brackets, and let it draft. You always stay the one who knows the bride; the AI just handles the typing. They're a bonus, not a requirement.

The wedding is soon / I just got asked - is the timing right?

Either way, yes. The month-by-month structure works whether you have a year or a few weeks - jump to the part you need and the manual catches you up.

Does it cover the bridal shower AND the bachelorette?

Both, in full. There's a complete planning guide for each - theme, budget, guest list, timeline, itinerary, food and decor - so you're never starting from a blank page.

so, my lovely MOH…

Take on the role like the hero she chose.

Download your manual, start the group chat, and give your best friend the maid of honor she deserves.

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